Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Happy/Sad 2019


As 2019 screams to a close, feelings are a mixture about the year.  Here's a list of things I'm happy to see go (some personal, some in the world) and those I am so grateful for:
Happily letting go of:
  • 20 people in a Democratic Primary debate (and many of those people as candidates)
  • Bret Kavanaugh
  • Putting on a show every single Sunday
  • Mass Shootings becoming common place
  • All the stuff that we threw out when our closets collapsed
  • Expectations about the people around me
  • the illusion that I don't have time to write
  • False feelings of lack
  • Conditional self love
Sadly saying goodbye to:
  • Our mother living in our family home of 54 years
  • San Diego as a home base
  • Being a pastor of Center for Spiritual Living, Davis
  • June Cummins Lewis
  • A friendship that recently ended
  • Watching so much televison

Monday, December 30, 2019

Are you willing to destroy the conclusion that you have to choose between fulfilling your dreams and having a family?


All the thoughts, beliefs, opinions and conclusions that you have had in this lifetime or any lifetime that you had to choose between fulfilling your dreams and having a family, are you willing to destroy and uncreate them all? 

In this short video I employ a technique to clear your limiting beliefs about fulfilling your dreams and the next steps to doing so.  

My clearings are what is known as "Spiritual Mind Treatment" taught by Centers for Spiritual Living and incorporate language and concepts from Access Consciousness such as the Clearing Statement.

All is Well Institute is a ministry of mine that teaches and supports people in healing themselves from chronic pain and chronic physical ailments using meditation, forgiveness, prayer and other tools when other treatments have stalled progress.

To apply for support in the care circles, find out about classes or arrange for a private session with me or one of our other practitioners, contract us at InfoAllisWellInstitute at Gmail.com or follow us on Facebook.


Sunday, December 29, 2019

What's the Difference Between Making a New Year's Resolutions and Forming a New Habit?

I avoid New Year's Resolutions, but I DO like jump starting a new habit by trying it for 30 days straight.  Really what is the difference?  Here's how they seem different to me:

The very notion of New Year's Resolutions (which I used to revel in) implies that with the power of my mind, starting in the new year, I can do something that I've not been or willing or able to do up until that point:  start exercising, stop eating certain things, cut down on drinking, stop feeding the neighborhood rats, whatever.

This is a weird one for me because I'm practiced in how to work reliably with spiritual principle.  I DO believe in the power of the mind. I DO believe that if I change my thinking I can change my life.  I DO believe in miracles and that old thoughts beliefs patterns and ideas can shift quickly and that it CAN be easy.

However, I also know that research and my experience shows that most of the thoughts I think today or tomorrow are the thoughts I thought yesterday.  And I know that thoughts create my reality.  So if I create a New Year's Resolution such as "Starting January 1, I will no longer eat chocolate chip cookies" and if I focus on it will my might and all my will, all my body will hear is "chocolate chip cookies" and it will say YES to that.  (It is occurring to me even as I write that while I don't have chocolate chip cookies, maybe I do have chocolate chips somewhere) As far it as my body is concerned, I took my basic interest in chocolate chip cookies up a notch and it helped me get there.

If we change a pattern of thinking we will have a new experience but, as the example above shows, "resolution" alone is not enough to break a pattern of thinking.  In Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, Dr. Joe Dispenza unpacks the science that shows why and how it is so difficult for us to change a pattern of thinking or behavior.  Habits produce neural pathways in our brain which are well-worn grooves down which the thoughts beliefs opinions we had yesterday will drive us to "take that yesterday and plop it down on our tomorrow."

Are there are ways to change these patterns of thinking?  What Centers for Spiritual Living/Science of Mind has taught as "Spiritual Mind Treatment" for close to a century, Dr. Joe Dispenza now teaches as scientifically proven meditation. In both we unite with all there is and we create a new reality and collapse that new thought/reality/consciousness into a new real experience.  This can happen instantly but it can also take loving practice and support.

One reason 12 step groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous (or Overeaters Anonymous, Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, Workaholics Anonymous, Debtors Anonymous, Gamblers Anonymous, Codependents Anonymous, you name it) work for many is that they provide a structure of social support coupled with deep honesty to focus on the present moment.  All of that makes a new habit, one day at a time, possible.

Social science research shows that it takes 30-40 days to establish a new habit.  If one has an addiction, it might take a lifetime to prevent relapse to the old habit.  I'm a big fan of trying something new for 30 consecutive days.  During those days, I always count the days.  If I skip even one day, it's back to day one.   This is not to be rigid or inflexible.  It's because it takes 30 CONSECUTIVE days, not non consecutive days.  If I want something to become easy, at first I have to be extremely consistent about it.   

I also check in with an accountability partner about it.  I tell them that I'm going to do it.  I tell them that I did it.   And I tell them if I'm in danger of not doing it.  

Many of the things that I have started (or given up) for 30 days have evolved into lifelong habits.  Some of have flamed out.  If my old habit proves to be exceptionally difficult and exceptionally harmful to myself or others, it may be an addiction which takes even more help (see above).  Whichever they are, they aren't resolutions anymore because I am not pretending to myself that all by myself, without help, I can suddenly change something that I haven't been able or willing to by myself before.  YOU might be able to, but I'm not.


Saturday, December 28, 2019

Clearing Limiting Beliefs About Family in the Holidays

In this short video I employ a technique to clear your limiting beliefs about family in the holidays. My clearings are what is known as "Spiritual Mind Treatment" taught by Centers for Spiritual Living and incorporate language and concepts from Access Consciousness such as the Clearing Statement.

All is Well Institute is a ministry of mine that teaches and supports people in healing themselves from chronic pain and chronic physical ailments using meditation, forgiveness, prayer and other tools when other treatments have stalled progress. 

To apply for support in the care circles, find out about classes or arrange for a private session with me or one of our other practitioners, contract us at InfoAllisWellInstitute at Gmail.com or follow us on Facebook.

Friday, December 27, 2019

The Accidental Collector Part 1: The End of Pigs

Does anyone really set out to become a collector?  I sure didn't.  In my fifty-eight years on the planet, I have accidentally come to preside over two separate collections, one of pigs and one of nativity scenes.  This post will cover the former.  And it's possible that there will be a second post that will cover the latter.

The first accidental collection started when I was about 12 and became enamored with actual pigs and pic facsimiles.   While I never desired a collection, I liked everything about pigs.  Word got out and by the time I entered my freshman year of college, people had begun to give me not only stuffed pigs but pig salt and pepper shakers, pig placemats, piggy strings of lights, all of it.  At some point, without setting an intention, without wanting particularly wanting it to happen, I had transitioned from someone who likes pigs to becoming a pig collector.  

When I was a person who merely liked pigs, it really didn't matter what kind of pig item people gave me and it didn't matter how I stored it or whether I displayed it.  But the moment I became a pig collector, I now was in possession of enough pigs that I did not want people to give me run-of-the-mill pig items.  I wanted precious, unique pigs, pigs I could get nowhere else.  The problem is that back then, there was no internet and no way for anyone else to easily discern what was a proper gift to a pig collector.  



And display of the pigs was ALWAYS a problem.  At the height of my pig collection, I was in my late twenties.  We didn't yet own a house.  The house we rented was of modest size and nothing we owned lent itself to proper display of a pig collection, whatever that might be.  Knowing that we'd only have to move it to whatever home we did eventually plan to buy, we were in no mood to invest in any of the large unwieldy pieces that might have enough compartments and glass to lend themselves to pig display.  

I was done with it.  Before we moved, I threw an "end of pigs" party to announce to all our friends that I was no longer into pigs and they were no longer to give them to me.  Fortunately, the "end of pigs" party concept was a huge draw.  Unfortunately, that forced me to make additional pig-related purchases.  I was particularly thrilled by a stamp I found with a pig's butt on it.  Everyone who entered the party was greeted by me wearing a pig snout and carrying the stamp and an ink pad so that I could stamp their hand with a pig's butt and say "get it, end of pigs?!"  

Whatever else happened, I remember this as an amazing party although its possible that I'm conflating with another we threw in that house where the pizza took forever to come and all we had was vodka and Madonna videos for a very long time.


Recently, about 30 years later,  I found behind the Christmas boxes the "End of Pigs" party box (correctly labeled).  In it was a dried ink pad but not the stamp, a string of broken pig lights and a large wind-up pig or two.  I threw it all out.  You heard me.  Not composted.  Not recycled.  Not even Goodwill.  We're talking landfill, baby.  That, I have to say, was the real end of pigs.

Thursday, December 26, 2019

Beware the Day After

For the past few years, I've gotten pretty good at "getting through" challenging periods of life without using extra food, treats, or other destructive behaviors to cope.  But the "day after" is another matter.   What can I do to rid myself of "day after syndrome?"

Whether the "temporary" challenge is something as common as the holidays, a houseguest or a busy time at work, or whether its a big transition like a close relative dying, a move or a job loss, my thinking is the same:  I can get through this.

That thinking is MUCH better than my previous belief which was "I can get through this with more X" where X = your favorite substance or coping mechanism.  Mine are eating (or eating foods that don't serve me), hyper scheduling, controlling, manipulating, managing, spending, diet cokes, Twitter and streaming the golden age of television.  Others might include alcohol, cigarettes, other drugs, porn, gambling or Pinterest (please tell me its not Pinterest).

Miraculously, for years with a lot of help, I've been able to get through many of life's challenges without over-using X to cope or wind down or reward myself.  One day at a time, I no longer believe or need to act upon these thoughts "this is too much for me without (overdoing) X," "I just need X until ..."  "I can't quit (overdoing) X until I get through..." 

Now December 25th or 31st isn't the issue; its the day after Christmas or New Year's that kicks my butt.  My old neural pathways which have lain dormant or rerouted during the holidays or the stressful period are still very much alive and available to lead me to (overdo) X.  The day after whatever they kick in with the very interesting idea "you made through! Congratulations! You deserve a reward!" (and guess what that reward idea always is, a return to X)

There are two questions that help me to avoid a Day After Doomsday.  The most important (and most difficult to believe) thought is this: is it possible that there is no such thing as a day after because there was never anything to "get through?"  Life is life and it contains multiple challenges.  The very notion that there is something to "get through" may be a unhelpful belief which if carried to its logical extension applies to all of life.  Do I want to live my whole life as something to "get through?"

The second question, which helps immensely with the part of me that still believes that there is something to "get through," is this,  what can I reward myself with that is loving and not destructive for me? Note that there are many many people for whom a sugary treat, a special cocktail or impulse shopping may be a loving act, I just don't happen to be one of them at present.  For me, my best ideas involve walks in a different part of town, bubble baths or reading a good book by a fire.  

So, just for today, I let go of the idea of the day after and surrender into the possibility that today is not the day after Christmas but just another Thursday filled with the joy of living.  As the Access Consciousness folks like to ask, how does it get even better than this?  What else is possible?

Wednesday, December 25, 2019

Don't Throw the Consciousness Out with the Christ Child

There are many reasons to judge Christmas: the commercialism, the cultural dominance of one religion over most of the world, and the appropriation of ancient winter solstice traditions without attribution to name a few.  Yet, as we celebrate today the birth of the Christ child, it is worth remembering that "Christ" was not Jesus's last name.  The Christ, derived from the Greek Khristos, means "the anointed one."  

Where I come from we celebrate Christmas Day as an awakening of the Christ Consciousness in the world which came to show us that Spirit is not something separate from us but actually living out its perfect life as us.

If we remember that every character in a story (just like every character in a dream) really represents a part of us, we can perhaps recognize ourselves in the Christmas story (which, full disclosure, I happen to love).  We are shepherds toiling in the field waiting for someone else to save us.  We are the wise men who recognize despite our wealth that something new needs to emerge.  We carry within us the pure love (of Mother Mary) and the much more flawed human love (of Father Joseph).  And we are also the light, the power, and the awesome sovereign possibility of the Christ represented by the newborn baby.  

Christmas comes to remind us who we are, to re-awaken us to our own power, and teach us how to fall to our knees in awe at the creative potential each human being contains within no matter how humble our circumstances.

Today I choose to keep the Consciousness of the Holy Christ burning bright in my hearth as I acknowledge the Christ in the people around me, yes, all of them.

Tuesday, December 24, 2019

The Shiksa Hanukkah

Tonight will mark the third night of "Shiksa Hanukkah," made ever the more shiksa by its coinciding this year with Christmas Eve.   Since I've always had a thing for Jewish men (witness #Bernie2020 lol), I was destined to be a shiksa.  According to the Urban Dictionary definition below, I am the "ideal shiksa...a blonde WASP who looks the opposite of a stereotypical Jew."   I learned the term in college when I travelled to the upper east side to meet my first boyfriend's grandparents.  At the larger family gathering grandpa pulled my bf aside to whisper some sage advice, "shiksas are for practice" came first.  The even more daunty, "scratch a shiksa and you'll find an antisemite," was to follow.

A few years later, I met and married my husband.  Although his mother was very culturally Jewish (which btw makes my husband a Jew under Talmudic law--this is the kind of thing one comes to know as a shiksa), like many American Jews, she was not religiously observant.  As a result, her son/my husband grew up with only a passing familiarity and observance of Hanukkah in the winter and Passover in the spring (and almost none of the highest holy days of Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashanah in the fall).   

Like mothers and aspiring clergy everywhere I appointed myself in charge of my children's spiritual upbringing and determined to raise them with an understanding not only of their WASP (mostly Scottish) heritage but also their eastern European Jewish roots.  Hence over the years, I developed what I like to call, "the Shiksa Hanukkah."  

To celebrate Hanukkah shiksa-style, the responsible shiksa will need the following tools and practices:

  • Look up the Hanukkah dates every year and at least by the second day of the eight day holiday begin to set up the stuff below.

  • Buried somewhere under multiple large unwieldy boxes of christmas ornaments, lights and keepsakes there will be a small cardboard box once marked "Alanon" crossed out and replaced with the word "Hanukkah."
  • In this box there will be
  • one improperly cleaned or stored menorah with bits of wax leftover from previous year.
  • a handful of candles leftover from the previous year that actually fit in that menorah
  • several boxes of candles from previous years that have been determined to NOT fit in that menorah yet are inexplicably stored and retrieved annually
  • two blue and white hacky sack balls and one blue and white beanie baby bear each with a Star of David on them
  • several different dreidels: 
  • one large artistic one that makes better art than dreidel
  • one large plastic one that used to play Dreidel Dreidel Dreidel I made it out of clay and has long since run out of battery--for years no one in the household has energy or wherewithal to remove the 4 tiny screws and see if batteries can be replaced--this spins pretty well for how large it is.
  • one cheap small plastic one that is the only one really fit to play dreidel with (this is essential to have on hand even when there are no children around to play it)

  • Also must retrieve a blue and white tablecloth and napkins wrinkled and poorly folded at the bottom of a heavy plastic tub (awkwardly balanced on the top shelf of the downstairs closet) under 25 equally poorly stored red and green tablecloths, placemats, napkins and dish towels.
  • Helps to have a daughter with facility for languages who dropped out of Hebrew school after 2 months at age eight when she found out that there was a religion associated with it.    She sort of has the Hanukkah prayer memorized.
  • For the eight days of the holiday, about 5 days out of 8 if you're honest, you put the proper of candles out at the beginning of the day.  And, in the unlikely event you have a meal at home together that week, light them in the evening meal with daughter hastily and reluctantly muttering the prayer.
  • It goes without saying that the Shiksa Hanukkah display awkwardly competes with the much larger Christmas festival sprawled all over the house.  Particularly since I have a bit of a Crêche (nativity scene) fetish (which should be a subject of another post, I can't believe it isn't)
    This morning's actual Hanukkah display

     
Compare that with this morning's actual magical Christmas eve display

   



Monday, December 23, 2019

My Christmas Decor Barometer: how happy and healthy am I this year?

Like many moms, when our kids were little, I turned myself inside out to create the right holiday environment, whether convenient or not.  Sleep, serenity and joy were sacrificed to the Gods of Christmas Perfection.   A few years ago, our kids became young adults and for a while I tried vainly to keep up the charade.  I felt guilty if they came home for the holidays to a half-decorated house, even while I was the full time pastor of a busy church with lots of joy and cheer to produce in that house too.  

At that point fate intervened and I hit the skids literally and figuratively with successive knee and wrist accidents that made it all but impossible to cope with the holiday boxes for two to three winters in a row.   No one in the house cared enough about the decorations to help me put them up or take them down, so it was increasingly ludicrous to pretend that I was doing it for them.

This year, as I have transitioned out of being the pastor of a church and my husband and I settle into what promises to be a long (and perhaps permanent) stretch with no young children in the immediate family, I find myself having fully decorated the house again.  

This time it's different.  

I did it slowly over the month.  

I did on full night's sleep.  

I did it without a barrel of sugared treats under one arm and resentment under the other.  

And most of all, I did it for me.  

Next year, who knows what I'll do for me for Christmas?

Saturday, December 21, 2019

California Presidential Election Starts Feb. 3rd--How to Vote in Dem Primary if Not Registered Democrat

Do you have a favorite in the presidential primary?  Are you thinking of traveling to Iowa or New Hampshire because their primaries are so influential? If you are registered no party preference in California, do you know how to vote in the Democratic primary?   

California voters are so used to being irrelevant in presidential elections and pay so little attention to what is going on until the last couple months of the general election that we may not have noticed that 2020 is different.  Here's a chart and some key points to help you through it:

This chart walks you through it.  A couple of points to flesh out:
  • All other races in the state, for state-wide offices on down, are subject to Open Primary law where you can vote for your top pick regardless of party, but this does not apply to the presidential primary.
  • If you are registered No Party Preference (i.e. not registered in particular party) it will be harder to vote in the Democratic primary than ever before.  You will receive a little card in the U.S. snail mail at your registration address (it is beyond the scope of this blog to explain what US mail is.  Suffice it to say that it exists and you do receive it somewhere).  If you want to vote in the Democratic presidential primary, you need to intercept that card and send it back in to request a Democratic primary ballot.
  • If you are registered in the "American Independent" Party or Republican Party or Green Party or any party other than Democratic Party you cannot vote in the Democratic primary.
  • If you want to vote in the Republican primary, you must be registered as a Republican.  The Republican party in California does not allow non Republicans to pick the presidential nominee.
  • If you want to be sure of voting in the Democratic presidential primary the safest thing to do is re-register as a Democrat at your current address
  • Last day to register to vote in California is February 18th.

Monday, December 02, 2019

What "Normal" do we want to return to?

Over the weekend there was a spate of mainstream punditry touching on the idea that a significant portion of the swing or Democratic party electorate wants more than anything "a return to normalcy" as the goal of the 2020 presidential election (middle of the road blah blah columnist David Brooks said exactly that on Meet the Press yesterday in explaining Pete Buttigieg's appeal, New York Times had a piece on people being tired of "fighting"). My husband brought to my attention that exactly 100 years ago, Warren G. Harding had "a return to normalcy" as his slogan in his successful bid for the presidency after World War I.  Not to carry the analogy too far but perhaps if the world hadn't "returned to normalcy" so soon it could have avoided some things like, I don't know, the Great Depression and World War II (which most historians believe was a direct result of hasty resolution of bloody bloody World War I)?

Warren G. Harding: A Return to Normalcy

So let's assume we want to return to something called "normalcy." What then was "normalcy" pre current administration? Obviously normal must have been different for different people.  Do we just want to go back to being asleep to what is going on? Do we want to escape from Donald Trump or do we want to escape from his ripping us out of denial and into actually seeing how and what this country has become? Were we under the illusion that prior to this administration America was a country that worked for everyone? Many of us did not notice when the Obama administration was ramping up deportations and being hardline against immigrants, reauthorizing the Patriot Act, spying on Americans, not shutting down Gitmo (off shore torture and detention without rule of law), shoring up concentrating wealth and power in huge monopolies, enabling 9 million home foreclosures, doing nothing to stop mass incarceration or police racism. Some of us, whether we were post industrial midwesterners scrambling to survive or families of color being victimized by racists policies never left our normal. Some of us who voted for the current administration because we wanted to return to our normal, a normal where we didn't encounter many people who had different skin, sexual orientation, gender ideas than we did.  We had all of these normals and yearnings in the Obama administration and we still have them now.  Others of us are only noticing these policies and their effects now.  Do we want to just stop noticing? or do we want things to change?


This happens in my personal life too.  Something (a car break down, a job loss, an illness) disrupts my normal routine, and all I want is to return to normal even if my normal contained much I didn't care for.

Bernie Sanders and his errant apostle Elizabeth Warren are the only major candidates who are campaigning to address the conditions that actually created and emboldened the current administration.  Pete Buttigieg, Joe Biden and Amy Klobuchar are campaigning on being "reasonable" and "moderate" and living in the "real world."  All Democrats want the "change" of regimes but some disagree on whether they want any change other than regimes.

There is another related group of voters that years for a mythical fantasy time of nonpartisanship and "reaching across the aisle."  There aren't many of these voters but because they are disproportionately swing voters, they perhaps achieve outsize importance and the mainstream cable pundits LOVE to talk about this fantasy.    What most voters and pundits fail to realize is that in the current polarized environment Democrats could reach until their arms are stretched for miles and not catch a Republican hand--there are none outstretched because the base would eat them alive for addressing the issues bipartisanship would lend itself to.  

Likewise anybody who has negotiated anything at all has to realize that it makes no sense to ratchet down expectations in advance of a legislative battle.  Warren's recent move from Medicare for All to Medicare for More makes it less likely that she would even achieve Medicare for More let along Medicare for All.  I worked in the arena of health care politics in Washington and Sacramento for years and this is NOT how it works.  You can't negotiate against your end goal.  To get to where you want to go, you've got to do what Sanders is doing, build a real movement for what we truly want, the whole enchilada, and then figure out how you're going to get there when you've got momentum and pressure to bear.

Woah, this post has swung around a little, what's the point here? the point is that we need to be careful not to tell ourselves stories about some mythical time when bipartisanship and flowers grew in the Congress and presidents were presidential and all was well.

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

My Darlings, Let Us Eliminate the Conditions that Elected this Demagogue

Dearest Dearest Dearest Friend and Countryman,

I want to speak to you about a matter of greatest urgency.  It is possible that you have
misread the current situation and so I address these words to you in the hopes that they will help sooth your heart and your soul and your feeling that something has gone terribly wrong.  


There is a great discontent in this America right now.  In this beautiful abundant nation there are children who have gone to bed hungry, people who are living under tarps in the rain, folks that are working multiple jobs, barely sleeping just to keep a roof over their heads and clothes on their family, people who are in debt for their education, their homes and their health care.  If you are reading this, chances are that is not you.  Chances are that if you have time to read this, you have just enough breathing space to sit for a minute, you have this device, you have the internet connection, you have the education, whatever it might take to be able to create the time and space to sit with this message. Cynical evildoers with their own agenda manipulated a large swath of the people above using racist, xenophobic, anti-LBGTQ and other divisive language and imagery to have people blame the state of their deprivation on THE OTHER rather than on government policies designed to enrich a wealthy few at the expense of working people.    My darling, it would be a big mistake to think that the goal of the Democratic presidential primary is to find the candidate least likely to scare people who have secure health care, housing and finances.  Those people, myself among them, are NOT the people who voted for this regime.  We are hopeful that those people with enough will vote Democratic regardless. Yet it is imperative that we understand that it not our pain at a Trump administration but the pain that attracted and created a Trump administration which will determine this election.

The goal of this election must be to remove the conditions that allowed a self-interested autocratic demagogue to be elected president in the first place.  We must elect a candidate who is trusted, connecting with and working for the majority of Americans that are not benefiting from the current economic recovery.  We must elect a candidate who can provide them with a loving, real alternative that offers something tangible that addresses their fears so that they can vote out of faith and hope instead.  Bernie Sanders and Elizabeth Warren both speak to the concerns of this group.  Both care about this group.  However, ONLY Bernie Sanders is drawing consistent energy, excitement, money and engagement from this vast group of people.  Warren is drawing energy, excitement, money and engagement from predominantly Democratic strongholds that will not decide this contest.
 Senator Bernie Sanders (I-VT) has received over four million individual financial contributions in an average of $19 per person to date.  The largest self-identified profession to donate to him is teachers, the second is retail employee, particularly Walmart and Amazon. Bernie Sanders is tapping into the same discontent, anger and fear that elected this president and instead of cynically manipulating it, he is responding with love, compassion and people-centered policies that would make a difference in people's lives.  These policies are real.  They have long been done in every developed nation of the world and that are affordable by the world's wealthiest nation: Medicare for All, free public higher education, eliminating education and medical debt.  These are policies that unite across gender, race and background lines.    He is receiving contributions, volunteer energy and commitment from the highest number of women, immigrants, and people of color of any candidate.   Everywhere Bernie goes, the crowds grow and grow, the excitement grows and grows.  Many many polls show him ahead of Biden, Warren and Buttigieg in head to head contests against the incumbent president in battleground states of Ohio, Wisconsin, Michigan and Pennsylvania.   f you are scared of the incumbent president and his regime, Sen. Sanders and his movement is your sweet sweet antidote.  He can and will win.  The question to ask yourself may not be are Sanders supporters willing to vote for whomever the Democrats elect as a nominee?  The question may be are the Democrats who have been doing well in this economy willing to extend that prosperity to the bottom 60%, even if it means some change for them?


Thursday, November 14, 2019

How Bernie Sanders is not just another Angry White Man

True confession: despite my longtime anger and suspicion towards Hillary Clinton, I remember feeling very moved as the first woman in US History accepted the Democratic nomination in her white pantsuit (and no, you shouldn't even consider running again, good day, I said good day, madam secretary).  So as a woman with a background as a consumer attorney and advocate who likes a lot about Elizabeth Warren, it is not lightly that I fully support, endorse and work for a Bernie Sanders nomination and presidency.  I'd like to tell you a few of the ways that I strongly believe he is not just another (angry) white man.  Several of the points I make are more strongly illuminated in this recent piece How to Fight Anti-Semitism by Senator Bernie Sanders

1.  Having a Jewish President would be a significant first.  We have never had a president who grew up in non Christian religion.  Three of our presidents were considered to have no religious affiliation:  Thomas Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln and Andrew Johnson.  John F. Kennedy with the only Catholic president.  It seems that Bernie Sanders identifies as more culturally than religiously Jewish, but he is not a practicing Christian.  So it would be very new to have a Jewish president.  

2.  Knows the dangers of fascism.   Although Bernie's father moved to the US in the 1920s, many of the relatives who stayed were murdered in the Holocaust.  Bernie Sanders grew up with a clear sense of the consequences fascism in the world.

3.  Child of Immigrants.  Since his father came to the US to escape poverty and anti-semitism seeking a better life, he can identify with other refugees and immigrants who come to American fleeing poverty and oppression.

4.  Better placed to broker peace in the Middle East.  Bernie has a connection to Israel going back many years.  In 1963 he lived on a kibbutz near Haifa. As a Jewish-American with concerns about Israel's treatment of Palestinians, a President Sander may be uniquely placed to broker a more lasting peace without charges toward him of anti-semitism.  As Bernie says in the above-reference article, "we should be very clear that it is not antisemitic to criticize the policies of the Israeli government."

5.  Common cause with Muslim Americans.  Related but separate point to above is that Bernie has been able to make common cause with Muslim Americans and is strongly supported by many including Rep. Ilhan Omar (D-Minn) and Rep. Rashida Tlaib (D-Mich) who are campaigning for him.  Bernie Sanders was one of only two Democratic candidates to address the Islamic Society of North America convention in August, the largest gathering of Muslim Americans in the country. 

6.  Grew up working class.  Unlike almost all the other male candidates for president including Pete Buttigieg, Andrew Yang, Julian Castro, Cory Booker and Tom Steyer,  Bernie Sanders grew up working class and was himself a union member for a time.  Looks like Joe Biden's father was very wealthy at one time and then fell on hard times in Scranton and became a car salesman.   It also looks like Sanders was the only one of those candidates with at least one parent attending college.  This gives Sanders a strong connection to the folks who are not particularly nostalgic for the Obama administration which did little to address their kitchen table concerns  [I refuse to consider Michael Bloomberg and Deval Patrick yet in this list).  

Bernie being arrested in Chicago 1963 Civil Rights protest

7.  Commitment to Social Justice.  Bernie has spent a lifetime fighting for the rights of others.  As this now famous (and sometimes misattributed) photo shows, he was dragged away by police in 1963 for protesting racist policies in Chicago schools.  He is on record as mayor of Burlington supporting women's and gay rights decades ago.   His commitments are longstanding, not a finger in the wind of the times.


Friday, November 08, 2019

Can we stop using "reality" as a way to stay stuck?

Realism is much touted in American life, personal and political.  Parents are socially validated for mocking their young adult children's "unrealistic" college majors and life choices.  Candidates for office are rewarded with big donor cash for mocking anyone who suggests that we can experience major change.  "I live in the real world," has become a favorite catchphrase in this election.

As the sovereign people of this nation (which means in theory, we're the ones in charge) I have long maintained that its not up to us to make the tough choices, its up to us to make the choices tough.  This means we ask for what we really want (like affordable high quality healthcare coverage for every person) rather than what we think we can "realistically" get (slightly more than what we have with some increased choice).  


The same goes for other aspects of life.  So often when people are looking for a job, a partner or a new place to live, their starting point is to be "realistic."  They are coached by conventional wisdom to look at what seems to be out there, determine what it costs or asks of applicants, and then winnow down their expectations to what appears to be possible.  In other words they are advised to start low and move lower.


As a student of quantum physics, psychology and the effect of consciousness on perception, I can tell you that what we call "reality" is actually just a reflection of our collective beliefs.  If we accept the current apparent conditions (poverty, war, racism, dead end jobs, expensive health care and education, "no good men") as determinative of what is possible, everything gets worse from here.


There is an alternative.  I love watching people take a chance on creating their Reality from within and then proceed (as visionary coach Mary Morrissey puts it) "from" that vision, rather than "to" it.  How would they love to feel in a job, in a relationship, in a home?  Most people will say things like "free, joyful, loving, creative and playful."  When they embroider their vision of their life anchoring it in the feeling of it, something shifts in their perception.  Now, instead of being a victim of "reality," they are creating their Reality.  I have watched people create in this way amazing careers, relationships, homes and experiences from the inside out.


I like to hang out with and vote for people who are not just accepting the parameters of the "possible" but changing them (and I bet you do too).  The people that we like to read about in magazines see something that is "impossible" and make it happen anyway.  
The people we venerate and idolize in the world history are always the visionaries: Nelson Mandela, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr.,  George Washington, Franklin Delano Roosevelt, these are all people who led mass movements to achieve "the impossible."  If any of these people "lived in the real world" then apartheid, segregation, British colonial rule, and the Great Depression might still be "reality."


Why then do so many of us venerate, cultivate and encourage candidates for president who "live in the real world" right now?  Throughout his career, Bernie Sanders has not lived in the real world.  The real world said that an independent Jewish socialist from Brooklyn could not be mayor of Burlington let alone the US Senator from Vermont.  The real world says no one could raise tens of millions of dollars from average donations of $17.  The real world says that candidates for president would not all be talking about Medicare for All, eliminating student debt, a large increase in minimum wage and a huge jobs program that saves our environment, yet they are.


Unless we are very happy with the current reality in our lives and in this country, we need a new vision.  We need someone who does not let themselves be defined and limited by "the real world."  We need to vote for a new Reality.

Tuesday, October 22, 2019

Why has Gavin Newsom Done Nothing on Single Payer Medicare for All?

Gavin Newsom Embraced by the CNA for his Single Payer support

This will be a short post and a slightly crabby one. Gavin Newsom, with the enthusiastic support of the California Nurses Association, campaigned for governor and won on single payer Medicare for All health care system. He then promptly appointed a bunch of people who have specialized in incremental approaches to health care reform. He "discovered" that its hard to fund single payer without a federal waiver that allows you to re-allocate Medicare and Medicaid (called MediCal here) dollars (everyone who knows anything about the realities of healthcare financing knows this). And...crickets.  No movement on this front whatsoever.

Also, as far as I can tell, no blowback from the California Nurses Association despite his not keeping his promises.  

If anybody wonders why I plan to vote for the only candidate running for president who has a lifelong commitment to single payer Medicare for all, someone who goes into it with eyes wide open as to the sea change and political courage it will take to defeat the health care industry, someone who isn't just paying lip service to a popular program at a particular point in time, they just got their answer.

Governor Newsom, if you ever want to be president (and you clearly do), you need to actually get it done and not just talk about it.  

Thursday, October 17, 2019

Finally, a World Leader to Admire

These days, I find it particularly important to hold in mind a model for world leaders who are ethical, loving and competent.  Prime Minister Abiy Ahmed Ali of Ethiopia is one of those rare leaders.  Last week, The Nobel Peace Prize 2019 was awarded to Abiy "for his efforts to achieve peace and international cooperation, and in particular for his decisive initiative to resolve the border conflict with neighbouring Eritrea."  Basically, within 18 months of taking office, he successfully ended a 20 year bloody conflict with Eritrea.  I intend to learn more about him and to lift him up with prayer.  I wonder, how does it get even better than this?  What energy, space and consciousness can I and the United States of America be to experience our own leader right here and now as ethical, loving and competent and anything that doesn't allow it, am I willing to destroy and uncreate that all right now?


Forbes reports "Abiy, a former intelligence officer, has been credit with pushing limited economic and political reforms in Ethiopia, working to mediate disputes between Kenya and Somalia and brokering talks between factions in Sudan. But he faces awakened ethnic rivalries in at home, where millions of people have been displaced by recent violence."

Wednesday, October 16, 2019

Why am I still for Sanders despite Warren's Outstanding Performance in Last Night's debate?


Elizabeth Warren, vibrant and feisty at 70, shined in last night's debate.  She deftly deflected her many detractors.  She held her own.  And her touted policies and beliefs mirrored Bernie Sanders.  So why am I still for Bernie?

Let me dispense with a few reasons that many Bernie supporters give for why they are still for Bernie over Warren:

1.  I do not believe that Warren's ex Republican status makes her a traitor to Democrats.  My father-in-law is still a Republican on paper and his beliefs mirror mine.    There are many very ethical caring people who either were or are members of the Republican party.  Why any of them would still be a member of the party or would still vote for Republicans is beyond me.  I am a member of the Democratic party only to try to influence the Democratic party from within.  For years I was independent. 
2.  I do not believe that Warren is a stalking horse for Wall Street.  I think she believes what she is saying and I think that if she could win, she would try to be a strong advocate for consumers and working people in the White House.
3.  I am given pause by Warren's long ago help to Dalkon Shield when it was screwing women it had injured but that is not the reason I am still for Bernie.
4.  I am given pause by Warren's recent votes for bad military budgets, but that is not the reason I am still for Bernie.

The reasons I am still for Bernie are:
1.  Ohio
2.  Wisconsin
3.  Pennsylvania
4.  Michigan
5.  Ability to NOT get played by Trump
6.  Realism and Pragmatism
7.  Depth and energy of his base including young people, women and people of color
8.  Popularity with everyone who knows him best

Winning the key swing states & depth and energy of his base.  Basically, Bernie has shown that he can win those states.  Even though both Warren and Sanders say they campaign for the middle and working class, Warren is polling better with educated elites than with the people she says she cares about.  Sanders continues to be an absolute rock star on the campaign trail.  You'd never know it by MSNBC (which the Berniecrats on Twitter call "MSDNC") or CNN coverage but Bernie draws record epic crowds and lines everywhere he goes.  People wait for hours in lines around the block to see him.  His average contribution is $17.  He's getting this money from teachers and Walmart and Amazon employees barely eking out a living.


Everything that Warren said last night is correct.  We don't beat the incumbents by turning back the clock.  We beat them by addressing the same concerns that got him elected.  That rules out Joe Obama Biden, Pete Clinton Buttigieg, and Kamala Harris right off the bat.  Warren says all the right things but I still believe that she cannot connect as well with the people of these midwestern states.


Popularity with those who know him best.  Before and after running for president, Sanders is the most popular senator in the country with his home state, Vermont (also in neighboring and more conservative New Hampshire).  Vermont has a Republican governor and almost everyone in the state loves Bernie.  They look at you like you're crazy if you ask who they support for president.  Warren, by contrast, is not particularly popular in Massachusetts.  (Nor is Harris in California).  

Realism and Pragmatism.  Bernie has been a chief executive (mayor) for many years and was, by all accounts, very effective at it.  I believe he knows how to govern and is less likely to get in the weeds, but will hire great people who will be loyal and will get it done.  My sense is that Warren would be more of a Jimmy Carter type who tries to get her hands on everything.  That's typically a disaster for a president.  Bernie is not some pie in the sky idealist (neither is Warren), he knows it will take a sea change and a movement to get the changes that he wants done.  That's why he compares himself to FDR who campaigned on the New Deal and when elected said "now go out there and make me do it."


Not getting played by you know who.  Although Warren is showing more discipline today, which makes me more hopeful if she does end up being the nominee, the whole Pocahontas thing, the recent discoveries of possible fabrications, all of it is unfair and unjustified stuff but I don't feel she has uniformly handled it well.  This president has an uncanny ability to define the playing field and drag his opponents to it.  He did it with every single Republican he beat in the 2016 primary and he did with Hillary.  Bernie on the other hand just keeps being Bernie.  He does not get thrown off his game.  He has abundantly shown that he doesn't play by the opponent's rules.  He plays by his rules.  This is KEY KEY KEY to beating this guy.  As Harry Reid said the other day, do NOT underestimate Donald Trump.

Popularity with young people, women and people of color.  Bernie may be an old white man but yesterday three women of color in Congress (3/4 of "the Squad) endorsed him: Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, Ilhan Omar (D-MN),  and Rashida Tlaib (D-MI). This video endorsement by Omar says it all: